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Loving Myself Was the Key to Empowerment

It was really difficult to start loving myself…but I did. Loving myself was the most important component in empowering myself to make decisions that made myself believe in me.

Loving myself is a journey that still continues today. Many people talk about loving themselves, but they have no idea where to start to achieve the goal of loving themselves. There are some important steps that you must take that will make loving yourself much easier for you.

Here are the most important steps that you want to remember and use on a daily basis to help you start loving yourself and to keep loving yourself.

1. Don’t criticize yourself on a daily basis; instead use positive thoughts about yourself and what you have achieved in life. This will help you see that you are a person that is easily loved, even by yourself. You can do this with affirmations to empower and believe in yourself.

2. Stop thinking any negative thoughts about yourself or life and replace them with only positive thoughts. By changing your way of thinking you will be able to not only start loving yourself more, but you can also change your life so more positive things happen. Be more conscious of your thoughts. So when you find yourself thinking negatively about yourself, then just stop yourself immediately and replace those negative thoughts with positive ones.

3. Treat yourself like you want others to treat you. If you think of yourself as a loser then that is what others will think of you as and treat you like. You are not a loser and deserve to be treated well, but before that can happen with others, you have to start treating yourself better. There is a saying that says, “We teach others how to treat us”. Make sure you are treating yourself well.

4. Don’t be afraid to give yourself a pat on the back for something well done. Praising yourself will help you feel empowered and this will definitely start helping you love yourself more. Congratulate yourself when you have accomplished something.

5. Learn to love any negatives in your life and embrace them for the things they have taught you and continue to teach you. Just don’t let the negatives bring you down, use positive reinforcement to prevent this and Orange County web design services company rid of all the negative that you can.

6. Be good to your body because this will help you feel better physically and mentally. Plus, it can also help you start feeling better about yourself, which will make loving yourself even easier. Eat more vegetables and drink more water.

7. Look in the mirror every day and reinforce how much you love yourself. Saying, “I Love You” out loud to yourself will definitely work wonders for helping you feel this way all the time.

Now that you know how to start loving yourself; all that is left is for you to get started. Don’t delay because the sooner you love yourself the sooner your life will change for the better and others will start loving you also if they don’t already. Plus, then you will be able to say with confidence, it was really difficult to start loving myself…but I did it.

Heralded as “The Queen of Transformation,” Fatima O is a specialist for holding the space where transformation happens. Fatima arrived at her role today in a dynamic way while travelling along her own path to finding true happiness. Fatima is highly sought after for her expertise in understanding the human mind, human behavior and relationship dynamics.

Fatima is an avid reader who reads at least five books a week. She is self educated because learning is her passion. Fatima is also a qualified Matrix Energetics Practitioner, A Spiritual Life Coach and Internet Marketing Extraordinaire. Fatima is dedicated to helping women globally remove their pain, overwhelm and fear, so that they may be grounded and feel confident enough to step into their God-Given Potential.

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